The key to unlocking your conflict with family mediation and moving into the future…
Why should I use mediation?
Mediation is a fast, cost effective, highly successful way or resolving disputes. You may be eligible for legal aid for mediation.† Recent statistics show 80% of those attending mediation reach a settlement. It is much quicker and cheaper than going to court, and mediators can help you to find long-term solutions that work for you and your family. At Kee Mediation, we can advise on whether you qualify for legal aid for the mediation process.
[†] Legal aid offered in conjunction with Children 1st Mediation, Unit 3, 21 Phoenix St, Stonehouse, Plymouth PL1 3DN.
“Mia and her team gave us a really professional service from start to finish during a very stressful time. I can’t thank the team at Kee Mediation enough and have no hesitation recommending them.” – MF, 2021
About Mediation
Whether you are recently separated, have been separated for some years or already in the court process, our fully accredited mediators can work with you to resolve matters and help you to find solutions that work for you. There are several stages in the process.
1. Intake or Assessment Meeting (MIAM)
Find out more about mediation, decide whether you would like to mediate and discuss your options with our professional mediators. If mediation is not suitable or you decide not to mediate, you can be issued with a court certificate (anyone wishing to start court proceedings, must now have a certificate from a mediator to confirm that they have attended a MIAM).
2. Optional Pre-mediation Coaching Sessions
You may chose a bespoke pre-mediation coaching session to prepare you for mediation. These sessions have been shown to improve outcomes and help you to consider what you need to move forward with your life, work through any emotional matters & provide you with the necessary skills to negotiate more effectively.
3. Mediation Sessions
Our mediators are fully accredited by the Family Mediation Council. They will guide you through the mediation process. Mediations sessions are usually 1.5hrs long and may take place face-to-face, separately (via shuttle mediation) or online. The timing and number of sessions are tailored to suit your individual needs.
4. End of Mediation
At the end of the mediation process, we can record your decisions and draft the proposals you reach into summaries, which can be made into legally binding arrangements by your legal advisors. We also offer after-care counselling and you always have the option to return to mediation at any time in the future.
5. Child Inclusive Mediation
In some cases our specially trained mediator can consult directly with children, allowing time for your child to express what they feel is best for them in a safe neural environment and enabling you to take their wishes into account in your decision making.
This short video explains how family mediators can support parents to focus on issues which may affect your family during mediation.
Do you need Legal Aid for Mediation?
If you are on a low income or if you receive certain benefits and do not have many savings or assets, you may qualify for legal aid. In this case, the mediation process would be FREE for you, even if you own your own home on your own or with your partner.
At Kee Mediation, our fully accredited family mediators are able to assess whether you are eligible for mediation legal aid at our Nottingham or Derby locations, which is offered in conjunction with Children 1st Mediation.
Kind & very understanding
Very thorough, provided all the information we needed in a clear manner. Kind and very understanding.
Informative & supportive
She was very informative and supportive and shared all the relevant information quickly and clearly.
I am very grateful for Mia’s understanding
My health problems & pending operation date meant that Mia had to be flexible with her diary to allow the mediation to take place before I was confined to hospital for a month. I am very grateful for Mia's understanding of these timescales.
Our mediator really put me at ease
I thought the process would be complicated and daunting but our mediator Mia really put me at ease and explained things in a way that were easy to understand. I'm really glad we chose mediation as an option but also feel lucky that I found Kee Mediation and got Mia working our case. Everything was done with ease and done quickly. Thank you Mia & team.
Very professional, kind mediator.
While I was worried and sometimes emotional my mediator gave me time and kind assurance to explain my situation. Mediator provided advice and while in my situation mediation is not sufficient I have all information needed regarding next steps. Thank you Mia for your time, empathy that I needed so much and all information you provided.
A very compassionate approach and extremely professional
Mia explained the process clearly and concisely from the initial telephone conversation. She had a very compassionate approach and was extremely professional. Mia talked me through the process and managed my expectations as well as helping me understand the process step by step and timescales. Mia was very approachable and made me feel listened to and understood my complex situation and how upsetting this was for me. She made me realise that this could be resolved and that made me feel better immediately.
Helpful and patient
Very helpful, patient with me and the other party was amazing, we had a laugh through the meetings aswell; was honestly amazing.
A really professional service
Mia and her team gave us a really professional service from start to finish during a very stressful time. My ex and I came up with some solutions for us and the kids and we can hopefully all move on now. I can't thank the team at Kee Mediation enough and have no hesitation recommending them.
How does mediation work?
Watch the video to find out how mediation can help you and your family resolve conflict and move forward.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is mediation?
Mediation is a way of resolving disputes that is less stressful than and quicker and usually much cheaper than going to court. Our mediators are fully accredited by the Family Mediation Council; they can help you to find solutions that work for you and take into account your particular issues, concerns and needs. You can mediate any dispute arising during or after separation, divorce, dissolution of civil partnership or any other family dispute. You may need to make decisions about childcare arrangements, finance and property matters, pre-nuptial & co-habitation arrangements or any family dispute involving young people or other family members. Our professional mediators can help you to consider all the issues and options on both sides, and you decide on the solutions that work for you.
Why mediate?
Mediation is a highly successful way, quick and cheaper way of resolving disputes. Recent statistics show 89% of those attending mediation reach a settlement.
You retain control of the process, from the decision as to whether to mediate to the solutions you reach. When you take a case to court, a judgment may not take into account the interests of both sides, but rather be settled on points of law. Our professional mediators can help you to consider the issues and options on both sides, and you get to decide on amicable solutions that work for you. Through mediating often hostility is reduced and relationships can be improved and preserved.
Who can refer to mediation?
Anyone can refer to mediation and you can get in touch with us as soon as you need help to resolve things. You do not have to see a solicitor first. Whenever possible, we aim to see you within 7 days of receiving a referral for an initial intake and assessment meeting. You can complete the referral form here.
Who is a mediator?
Our specially trained, fully accredited mediators act as an impartial, neutral party who can help you to resolve your dispute, by assisting you in exploring your options and find practical solutions that really work for you. The mediator can give you information to help you reach your solutions, but you retain the ultimate control about the outcomes you reach. The mediator can then record the details of the solutions you reach in mediation for you to take to your solicitors and convert into legally binding agreements or court orders, if necessary.
How long does it take?
Mediation is typically much faster than a court process, and disputes can often be resolved within a matter of weeks. The length of mediation is dependent on your individual circumstances and the complexity of the dispute. However, resolving childcare arrangements typically takes 1-3 sessions. For resolving child and finance issues, the average number of sessions is 2-4. Since 2011, everyone must attend a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting), before legal proceedings can be commenced, unless exceptions apply.
How much does it cost?
You might qualify for free legal aid for your mediation process at our Nottingham or Derby locations[†]. Legal costs to settle a dispute in court typically cost a minimum of £3,000 each.
Even if you are not eligible for legal aid, mediation is a much cheaper option than going to court. See our cost breakdown here. Whilst the cost of mediation depends on the number of sessions needed, in mediation the costs are typically shared between you. We offer fixed fees that are inclusive of VAT, with no hidden additional costs for session notes, letters and court forms. Some mediation services charge extra for this. All our MIAM fees are also inclusive of court forms, where applicable.
[†] Legal aid offered in conjunction with Children 1st Mediation, Unit 3, 21 Phoenix St, Stonehouse, Plymouth PL1 3DN.
Online MIAMS/ Mediation
We now offer online mediation in cases where it is difficult or impossible for people to meet face to face. There are several different platforms that can be used: Skype, Google Hangouts, Zoom and Facetime. Please contact us to discuss this option further.
Optional pre-mediation coaching sessions and aftercare
We offer a bespoke optional pre-mediation coaching session to help prepare you for mediation, that have been shown to improve the outcome of mediation. This session is aimed at helping you to consider your needs, communicate your concerns, work through any emotional matters that may affect your ability to negotiate and provide you with the necessary skills to negotiate more effectively. We can also offer counselling alongside mediation and/ or after the end of mediation. Contact us to discuss this.
Meet the team
We genuinely care about you, your situation and your family; we do everything we can to prepare you for the mediation process and to help it run smoothly.
Our mediators are fully accredited by the Family Mediation Council.
We aim to see you within 7 days for an initial appointment and our professional mediators will work with you to tailor your mediation to your individual needs. Our fixed fees are inclusive of VAT with no hidden costs and we offer flexible appointment locations and times to suit you. For your convenience, we can also offer online MIAMs and mediation. Optional bespoke pre-mediation coaching sessions to prepare you for mediation, support whilst mediating and after-care counselling are all available via our network of experienced counsellors and psychotherapists.
Mia Kee
Founder and Mediator
In brief | Mia is a mediator working in family, community and Special Educational Needs (SEN) mediation. Mia also works as a consultant mediator for ‘Children 1st Mediation’, and for ‘Prime Resolution’ in the West Midlands.
Experience | Mia qualified as a counsellor/psychotherapist in 2006. Mia worked in private practice, primarily with family and relationship therapies, as well as undertaking a highly specialised service, dedicated to the area of domestic violence, with the police and associated stakeholders.
Get to know Mia | When she’s not working, Mia likes cheese and wine, comedy, rock music and is always last to leave the dance floor!
Amanda Brighton
AdministratorIn brief | As Kee Mediation’s Lead Administrator, Amanda is your first point of contact; she arranges appointments and assists you with documentation and paperwork. She works closely with each mediator to ensure that you experience a personalised, streamlined mediation process.
Experience | Amanda loves being helpful and her aim is that you have an excellent customer experience throughout your journey with Kee Mediation! She has over 20 years in the field of administration and customer service, she’s extremely organised and she has a list for everything.
Get to know Amanda | Amanda is a massive lover of chocolate, and in her spare time enjoys walking to burn off all the calories from the chocolate she eats.
Janet L. Flawith
Lawyer MediatorIn brief | Janet is a lawyer mediator with a wealth of experience in various types of mediation. Janet runs AIM Mediation Ltd in Leicestershire and acts as a consultant mediator for Kee Mediation.
Experience | Janet worked as a solicitor for many years with the majority of her work in the family law, specialising in domestic abuse, childcare and vulnerable adults.
Janet primarily works in the fields of family and SEN mediations, as well as providing supervision and training. She is able to offer ‘Child Inclusive’ mediation. Janet also provides specialist mediation in the area of international parental abduction for Reunite.
Get to know Janet | When she’s not working, Janet loves knitting, crocheting, upcycling and yoga.
Danielle La Roche
Professional CounsellorIn brief | Mia & Danielle have developed a bespoke pre-mediation package, of coaching sessions. These sessions equip you with the skills to negotiate more effectively, and are shown to improve the outcome of mediation. Danielle also offers counselling to Kee Mediation clients before, during and after mediation.
Experience | Danielle is a lecturer in Counselling and Psychotherapy at Derby University and an experienced professional counsellor, clinical supervisor and life coach, who has worked with a wide variety of clients and issues. Whilst Danielle has worked in different settings including the charitable sector, she now runs a successful private practice.
Get to know Danielle | When she’s not working, Danielle enjoys spending time with friends and family, weekends away, quality coffee; and reading.
Rachel Curtis
Family MediatorIn brief | Rachel is a fully qualified family mediator who is currently working towards accreditation with the Family Mediation Council through Kee Mediation. She is also an experienced accredited Special Educational Needs Mediator working across various Local Authorities.
Experience | Rachel’s background is in education, working as a Special Educational Needs Coordinator and an Assistant Headteacher. Over her 23 years in schools she was passionate about fostering positive relationships between children, families and staff to ensure the best outcomes for all, and so it was a natural next step to retrain as a mediator.
Get to know Rachel | When she’s not working Rachel enjoys walking, gardening and always has a sewing project on the go.
Costs
All costs are fixed and inclusive of VAT.
Initial Information Session (MIAM)
£120pp
Joint mediation session (1.5hrs)
£180pp
Co-mediation (2 mediators)
£220pp
Drafting of Parenting Plan
£180pp
Drafting of Financial Documents
£240pp
Optional coaching session
£75pp
Signed court form (flat fee even if more than one form is required)
£35
Download our PDF Client Information Leaflet.
You may be eligible FREE mediation if you are assessed as being eligible for legal aid[†]. Legal costs for court proceedings typically cost a minimum of £3,000 each. Even if you are not eligible for legal aid, mediation is a much cheaper option than going to court. We understand that you want to know what you will be paying for mediation, so we offer fixed fees that are inclusive of VAT, with no hidden additional costs for session notes, letters and court forms. Some mediation services charge extra for this. All our MIAM fees are also inclusive of court forms, where applicable.
We offer fixed fees that are inclusive of VAT with no hidden additional costs for session notes or letters (some mediation services charge extra for this). Anyone wishing to start court proceedings, must now have a certificate from a mediator to confirm that they have attended a MIAM. Following a MIAM or mediation, if you require a signed court form by a mediator (mediator’s certificate), C100/ Form A/ FM1, we offer this for a flat fee of £35 (even if you require more than the one form).
If you do not qualify for legal aid, but are on a low income, we offer a reduced rate. Please ask us about this!
Mediation sessions are usually 1.5 hrs long and the number of session required is dependent on your individual circumstances. As a guide, resolving childcare arrangements typically takes 1-3 sessions. For resolving child and finance issues, the average number of sessions is 2-4
We offer bespoke optional pre-mediation coaching sessions to help you to prepare for mediation. Contact us to find out more.
[†] Legal aid offered in conjunction with Children 1st Mediation, Unit 3, 21 Phoenix St, Stonehouse, Plymouth PL1 3DN.
Contact Us
Whenever possible, we aim to see you within 7 days for an initial meeting (MIAM). We offer mediation in Nottinghamshire and Derbyshire at times and locations to suit you. Our locations include: Nottingham centre, Derby, Castle Donington, West Bridgford, Beeston, Long Eaton, Hucknall, Belper and Nuthall. For your convenience we also offer online MIAMs and mediation, and we can offer mediation at other locations upon request.
Email: info@keemediation.co.uk
Phone: 0333 772 7789
